Each one of us wants to marry someone who we love so dearly. Wedding is one of the events that can change our life completely. We all know for a fact that at some point in our life, we are bound to start a family of our own. But how do you know if that person is the right one for you? Marriage is not something that you can take so lightly, so you have to be sure with your decisions. And to help you with that, listed below are some of the tips or traits that your future husband should have:
Understanding – one of the most important traits that your partner must have is being considerate or understanding. Let’s face the fact that there is no perfect relationship, it is not always happy and positive. There will be a time that you and your partner will fight over something and you wouldn’t want to have a partner who only cares about himself, right? You must find a partner who is willing to listen to you, whenever you are in an argument so that whatever problem you have will be solved. Remember that communication is the key to make a relationship survive.
Family Oriented – if you are planning to marry your lover, then it basically means that you are ready to have your own family. Starting your own family is not easy because you have to make sure that you will be able to provide the necessary things your children will need. You must find a decent and stable job. And speaking of family, your partner should also be ready. You must make sure that your future husband is willing to do everything just for your future family. And just like you, he must also have a job. Don’t you want to have a husband who is family-oriented or someone who is reliable? By having one, you can rest well because you know for a fact that your husband will take care of you or will put you first over everything.
Protects You – Just like mentioned earlier, having a reliable husband is important because aside from knowing that he can take care of you, you also know that he is capable of protecting you. If a mother’s role is to guide her family, then the father’s role is to be able to protect his family. And if you see that on your lover or who is going to be your future husband, then you are a lucky girl. But if you are having doubts whether he is capable of protecting you, why don’t you watch his movements or how he acts? How does he take care of you? Was there a time someone tried to harass you? If yes, what did he do? Think about the situations where someone tried to harm you and think of his reactions towards that situation. If you do this, you will know for sure if he is capable or not.
Productive – You certainly don’t want to marry someone who is lazy, because if you do, then your marriage life is surely ruined. Try to imagine doing all the household chores while taking care of your kids alone because your husband decided not to do anything, you will surely be worn out. You need someone who can help you in taking care of your kids and maintaining the cleanliness of your house. A husband who prefers to be productive rather than wasting his time doing nothing. You should know your worth. Don’t be with someone who only sees you as a maid.